In the book "The Divorce Organizer and Planner" it tells you to get a calendar and write down everything in as much detail as you can. You know you are going to be upset, distracted, drained and you can eaisly forget things. The first thing I bought was a planner. One that they call a "mom's planner". It has boxes at the top where you can write each family member's name on top and than write what they are doing throughout the day. This lets me keep up with what is going on with the kids even though I am not physically there all the time and it lets me keep track of my X's schudle.
So I have penciled in that through the weekend and tonight he has taken advantage of the kindness of those he works with who have asked him and the kids to dinner. I however am living out of a room at my friend's house. I get up at 4 am in the morning to be at the house so he can leave for work. I wake the kids up, feed them breakfast, get them ready for school and than drop them off. I still have a babysitting job for my other friend's baby until the 1st of Dec. I am going to watch the baby at her house because I can't stand being at my house all day, all alone. I couldn't before and I really can't now. I can't breath there.
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