Mon, Nov 24

I want to start off this entry by telling you that you will have many people who want to give you advice. People who care about you and love you and some who have been through the process themselves. I want to tell you that this is your marriage, your life, (your kids) and you need to figure out what is best for you.
That said I found myself this day contacting my X's Captain to see if I had any leverage to get myself back into the house and if they could make him move out. I did this because it came as advice from someone I trust. Apparently back in the day in the military higher ups could get husbands thrown into the barracks so the wife could be home with the kids. Well I pleaded my case via email and than after his captain read it he called me to inform me that there was nothing he could make him do outside of his duties as a solider. I must say I was saddened by the fact that I still was without the kids, but realived because I did not want the house. I can barely stand to be there let alone move back and live there. The mortage is in his name which means to me that the mortage payment is his responsibility and so is the great deal of maintaince the house needs. So I am more than happy to find a place elsewhere.